How to give a super deep throat (tips for women)

[This entry was initially posted to the original Red Keyhole blog on 25 June 2011.]

As this blog has noted, for women, giving oral sex to men (fellatio, often called “giving head”, or “giving a blow-job”) is an extremely widespread and definitely exciting form of “alternative” sexual behavior – perhaps in part because it still has the aura of a taboo (having been deemed fully legal in the USA for only less than a decade), but also because women themselves derive a sense of power from giving it, and also appear to derive some type of oral gratification from it. As this blog speculated in a previous posting,

Is it a basic, instinctive response – maybe related to the instinct of newborns to suckle mommy’s nipple? (To a newborn’s tiny mouth, a nipple would probably feel about the size of a penis in the mouth of an older girl or woman. Or gay male, for that matter…)

In any case, because more and more women seem increasingly enthusiastic about giving fellatio to their male sex partners, there’s more and more advice available about how to optimize the pleasure of this sexual experience.

A particularly useful example is a 2009 posting, on the Intimate Medicine website, which provides for women an excellent summary of technique for the “deep throat”, full-swallow type of fellatio. Excerpts from this posting, moderately edited to improve orthography, intelligibility, and readability, are included here for their education value and for the promotion of safer and more enjoyable sexual practices.

Learn to Give a Super Deep Throat!

A super blow job skill says hello: The Deep Throat

By: JP

The term deep throat stands for an extremely deep fellatio. When giving a super deep throat, the woman swallows the whole penis.

In 1972, a movie of the same name became a huge hit. In that movie, the late great porn star Linda Lovelace played a woman whose clitoris is located deep inside her mouth. The budget for the movie was mere 25,000 dollars, and it took six days to make it. [Up to] today, this groundbreaking movie that made the super deep throat fashionable grossed over 600 million dollars worldwide and became one of the greatest box office hits of all time. It’s still banned in 23 states. In the UK, the censors [finally] permitted the screening of the movie’s original version in 2000.

Deep Throat is also featured in the newest Radio Times Guide to Films as one of the 100 most influential movies in the history of moviemaking. Although the editors marked it as the worst movie with a wide-range effect, they also acknowledged that it brought pornographic movies out of obscurity.

That damn “gag reflex”

Ever since that unforgettable movie, there doesn’t seem to be a porno film without a silicon-busted hotty kneeling in front of one of her co-stars and giving him a super deep throat. Films which contain super deep throat scenes arouse the men and appall quite a few women.

Luckily, not all women see a super deep throat fellatio as degrading. Some women just love to satisfy their man by surprising him with a super deep throat.

The fact of the matter is that a penis of average size can be swallowed whole. There is a straight line without obstacles between the throat and the stomach, which sword swallowers also use to their benefit.


When giving a deep throat, the woman swallows her male partner’s penis whole.

The only obstacle on the way to mastering the super deep throat technique is the so-called gag reflex, which is an automatic physical reflex triggered by a solid object hitting the walls of the throat. This reflex protects us from choking on a foreign object that could get stuck in the throat. The good news is that a bit of practice and effort can help you control, block, or curb the gag reflex and pave the way to giving a super deep throat.

Trick your throat

Giving a super deep throat is an art form like any other. To master it well, you have to put some time and practice into it. To put it mildly, the practicing part can be quite unpleasant.

Try to relax before practicing. Then open your mouth, stick out your tongue, take a finger, put it in your throat, and find the spot that triggers the gag reflex. Now, take a toothbrush and scrub that spot with it. Continue doing so as long as you can, before the stomach acid starts to make its way up.

Try to repeat this every day and scrub a bit longer each time. Be careful and don’t hurt yourself.

Some of you’ll be able to curb your gag reflex quite soon, while others will probably need a bit more practice. Keep on trying, and don’t stop after just a couple of days. You could even find that you’re one of some 30 percent of all women who don’t have a gag reflex at all.

Some valuable tips along the way

If you still have problems with controlling the gag reflex, try to get ready to give a super deep throat by using the following tips:

• You have to be completely relaxed and determined that you’ll succeed…

• You’ll have more success in giving a super deep throat in the evening or at night, when your throat is warmed up and stretched enough…

• Before giving a super deep throat, warm your throat up with regular oral sex…

• Lay on your back and let your head hang over the edge of the bed. Lean your head back fully, straighten your neck, and raise your chin up high. This’ll make it easier for you to get the line between the throat and the stomach completely straight,

• Murmur while giving a super deep throat; this’ll relax your throat and curb the gag reflex…

• Breathe through the nose while giving a super deep throat.