Understanding the hotwife and swinging lifestyle

[This entry was initially posted to the original Red Keyhole blog on 16 November 2010.]

The following information from the Hot Wife Clinic website provides some useful information about the Hotwife variety of alternative sexual lifestyle.

A growing number of married or “committed” couples are participating in the Hotwife alternative lifestyle, whereby the Hotwife enjoys sexual recreation with Bulls (other male partners) with the knowledge of the husband/boyfriend, who may participate in the sex or take photos and videos.


Understanding the Hotwife and Swinging Lifestyle

So, you’d like your wife to date other men… hot wife, boyfriend, husband – who says 3′s company?!

Maybe you’re new to the hotwife scene, and not sure what all the terms mean. Or perhaps you’re interested in being in a hot wife relationship. but afraid it’s not normal. Learn more here!

Understanding Hot Wife Terms

Strictly speaking, a hot wife is a married woman who has extramarital sex with other men with the husband’s permission. The term also applies to a flirtatious girlfriend. To keep things simple we’ll refer to a husband-and-wife relationship.

Many men enjoy having a wife who has sex outside of their marriage. They get their kicks out of seeing the woman they married with another man, or hearing about her exploits when she comes home from a date.

Here are some terms you’ll encounter as you learn more about the how wifing lifestyle:

Hot wife. A married woman who has extramarital sex with her husband’s approval and encouragement. Usually, but not always, the husband in a hotwifing relationship does NOT indulge in sex with other women.

Open marriage. Term dating back to the 1960s that describes a marital relationship where one or both partners agree to have sex outside the marriage, without the guilt of feeling unfaithful. These types of relationships often go by technical terms, such as polyamory, polyfidelity, polygamy, candaulism, and others.

Cuckold. The husband, who is often – but not always – a willing participant in the sex games. Sometimes spelled cockold. Variations: cuck, cucky, cucky-boy, and cuckoo.

Bull. In a cuckolding relationship the bull is the wife’s boyfriend.

Sloppy seconds. This is when a husband has sex with his wife after the wife’s boyfriend has ejaculated his semen into her. A creampie is made when sperm from her stud leaks back out of your wife’s vagina.

Voyeur. A husband that likes to secretly watch his wife with other men. Voyeur’s may look through a window, hide in a closet, or record the fucking on a hidden camera.

Wife watching. The act of watching the wife with someone else. Hubby may be present in the same room with the wife and boyfriend. Or he may be a voyeur, watching or listening to it in secret.

Types of Hot Wife Sex

There are dozens of different kinds of hotwifing relationships and sex. Here are just some of the more popular variations. Keep in mind that different couples like to play in different ways.

Hot wife. A hot wife (or hotwife) is a woman that goes on dates with other men. The husband may watch openly, or in secret, or may stay home waiting for her return. In other variations, the wife may record her adventure using a camcorder, and bring the tape home for her husband to watch.

Swinging wife. This is a woman that swaps partners with another couple. Though the swinging hubby may get to screw another girl, what he’s really interested is the extra sex his wife is having.

Happy cuckold. Here’s a husband that’s thrilled his wife has sex with other men. He also often makes the arrangements, takes pictures, and records the action on video. (In fact, many of the movies you can see in our hot wife VOD theater were made just this way!)

Forced husband. These husbands are “forced” to watch their wife fuck. Truth is, they pretend to not like it, but warm up to the idea after seeing how much the wife enjoys it.

Cream pie clean up. Just watching may not be enough. The husband enjoys cleaning up the cum dump mess left in his wife’s pussy after her boyfriend is done mounting her. Hubby may use a towel or washcloth to wash her up, or may perform oral sex on her, licking the cream that comes out.

Is This Wife Swapping Stuff Normal?

You’d be surprised how common the hot wife and open marriage lifestyle is!

According to Wikipedia, a number of famous people are or have been involved in open extramarital relationships. These include several very well known actors, actresses, and models. Take a look to see that you’re in good company!!

And it’s a popular form of entertainment, too. Some of the most-watched porn DVDs are on the subject of wife swapping. Go to any adult dating sites and you’ll see thousands of men, women, and couples looking for hot wife and swinger action.

If you’d like to explore the idea of watching your wife have sex, or have her go out on dates with a boyfriend and come back to tell you about it, start by talking it over with her.

Best open the conversation while in bed. Tell her it’s your fantasy. Get a large rubber dildo and have the two of you fantasize that it’s another lover. Invite her to watch some videos of wife swapping and swinging.

Who knows, yo might be surprised to learn your wife has been wanting to date other men for a long, long time!

Hot Wife Clinic
2010-11-14

http://www.hotwifeclinic.com/hotwifing-explained.html