Sue: Missouri mother’s initial consensual incest with young adolescent son gradually develops into longer-term sexual affair (case narrative)

[This entry was initially posted to the original Red Keyhole blog on 16 April 2011.]

Mother-son incest may be the most taboo of the incest taboos within class society … but sexual loneliness or deprivation, fueling powerful lust, is a psychological dynamic strong enough to dominate the behavior of an adult female and smash through that taboo with erotic energy.

The seems to be the situation underlying this case, drawn from a March 2010 posting in response to a survey on an online incest discussion forum. The case narrative, by a mother identified as Sue, from Missouri, excerpted below for its research interest and educational value, describes the development of consensual incest with her son.

The case is interesting in illustrating the process whereby incest can begin consensually and mutually, particularly since sexual intimacy was driven in this case by the son, in early adolescence. However, this case also invokes the looming issue, within capitalism’s rigid and self-serving legal structure, of violation of draconian age-of-consent statutes, which would arbitrarily and ruthlessly target the mother for “statutory rape”, regardless of the desires, consent, or precociousness of her son, or the other circumstances.

Also of interest is the development of Sue’s emotional investment in her incestuous relationship with her son – from initial hesitancy to her commitment to a prolonged affair lasting into her son’s later adolescence, and her consideration of replacing her husband (after divorce) with her son, because “he is more of what I want with a partner.” This maturing of consensual mother-son incest into a more enduring girlfriend-boyfriend relationship is not that uncommon.


On occasion, initially casual mother-son consensual incest can develop into a long-term girlfriend-boyfriend sexual relationship.

The original narrative has been slightly edited for orthographical correction and to improve readability. It should be noted that, in recounting their experiences, narrators in such sexual forums relish reliving many of the erotic details of their activities. Thus, original language and dialect have been retained as much as possible – including very mature and sexually explicit language – in part to indicate such aspects as psychological dynamics and emotional and moral attitudes.

[One night] when my son was 13, we started to snuggle on our large couch. He started to kiss me on the cheek and then lightly on the lips. I was really enjoying that. His father totally ignores me, and so the attention was very nice to get.

The next night, I went and said goodnight to him, and he kissed me again, and asked if he could touch my breasts. I told him that we would get in trouble, and not to say anything, but I let him touch me … his hands felt so nice. I didn’t want to push him …

And then he took my hand and placed it on his penis, inside his pants, where I felt a very nice erection. His penis wasn’t big, but it was getting there. We then proceeded to make out with each other, and I rubbed his penis to make it hard for him.

The next day, he came in my room and offered me his cock, and asked me to make love to him. We did, for about 5 minutes … he couldn’t cum then, so no ejaculating happened … dry cumming of course. Me, I was soaked – just the thought of my son inside me.

We continued for 6 months, and then stopped, because we were being risky – no birth control or condom. I could have gotten pregnant, but he always promised me he would never get me pregnant.

Once in a while, when no one is home, we still get horny with each other, and he will make love to me. His cock is now 8 full inches at 16 years of age. We still don’t use anything, so I could get pregnant.

I am getting a divorce from my husband, anyway. [My son] wants to cum inside all the time, but then he doesn’t, ’cause he doesn’t want me in trouble. I think he would like to impregnate me, ’cause when he cums, when he pulls out, there is large amounts of sperm!

All I know is that we are very loving to each other, and he is more of what I want with a partner. Maybe we can become more to each other after the divorce. I hope that’s what he wants, and if not, I know we will still be lovers, ’cause he told me that he wants to continue this forever.