Konesha and Rufus — Extramarital brother-sister incest described as “the best sex, ever…”

Consensual adult incest between a sister and her brother may be triggered by extraneous emotional factors, such as the separation and danger of military service.

Alternative Relationship Center

DATE: 3 April 2013

CASE NO. 2013DC05

CLIENT: Konesha, age 26

PRIMARY BEHAVIOR TYPE: Incest, Infidelity

CLIENT’S CONCERNS: Emotional stresses, sex addiction, personal relationships

CONTEXT & SESSION SUMMARY:

Konesha (age 26 at entry) is an attractive, ethnically black, young woman, 5’6″ in height, weight 123 pounds, with black, wavy hair. She is married to Jonathan (ethnically white) and has two children – daughter Felicia, 12, from a previous relationship, and son Jonathan Jr., 2, from her relationship with her current husband.

Konesha has an Associate’s degree in Computer Programming and is pursuing a Bachelor’s degree in Information Technology at [university]. Currently she is employed as a Systems Administration Assistant for [bank], a position where she can adjust her work hours to accommodate her class schedule.

Konesha indicates her sexual relationship with Jonathan is healthy. However, this has become complicated by the incestuous relationship she has begun with her brother Rufus (age 29), recently returned from military service in Afghanistan, and now a reservist. Like Konesha, Rufus is married; he and his wife Jasmine (ethnically black) have a son, Isaiah, age 3.

In some cases, an incestuous affair may involve extra-marital behavior by one or both partners.

Konesha reveals that she and Rufus experimented with incestuous play in adolescence. However, Konesha’s strong adult attraction to her brother began only after his return from abroad.

She has difficulty explaining why her love for her brother developed into a powerful sexual attraction. She suggests it may have been a result of her anxiety over the danger he faced in combat duty, and her relief that he returned safely.

Konesha indicates that she initiated the sexual relationship. She is quite frank in discussing her strong sexual appetite.

I knew Rufus was home alone, because Jasmine was at work and Isaiah was in the day care center.… Rufus went to kiss me Hello. I gave him a French kiss. You know, real long and hard. I just couldn’t stop.

He pushed up close to me, and I could feel he was getting hard. I reached down and … felt his hard, and I told him I wanted him.

I unbuckled his pants and pulled them down. I kneeled down and started … you know, sucking him off. After I got him real hard, we got on the couch and fucked and fucked and fucked.

According to Konesha, her brother felt it was inadvisable to meet at either of their homes. So he arranged for them to meet at the apartment of one of his friends who allows them to use a bedroom for their activity.

Konesha says she “loves” the sensation of her brother ejaculating inside her. She says she usually has multiple orgasms during their episodes of incestuous coitus. She feels that breaking the incest taboo increases the sexual enjoyment for both her and her brother.

However, Konesha is concerned that her strong erotic attraction to her brother may be intensifying beyond her control. Asked to describe one of her experiences, she fantasized intensely when anticipating another tryst with Rufus:

 

My mouth waters when I think about going down on him.… I want that gorgeous big warm dick sliding in my mouth. I want to look up in his eyes with his dick down my throat and smile as I swallow his cum.

Then I want that great big, thick dick inside my body … I love to feel his hot cum in my [vagina] … We’ll hold each other real tight, you know? And French kiss. Real hot and wet. It’s the best sex, ever…

Powerful, uncontrollable erotic attraction may be perceived as a kind of "addiction".

In addition to her concerns about the intensity of her feelings for Rufus, Konesha also fears that her husband, Jonathan, may be becoming suspicious and jealous of her relationship with her brother. She would like to reveal the relationship to Jonathan, but she fears he would react hostilely, and thus would jeopardize their own marital relationship.

Her emotions are further complicated by what she describes as an overwhelming desire to conceive a child with Rufus. She realizes that Jonathan would almost certainly question the child’s paternity because of its appearance. She seeks guidance or suggestions for raising these issues with Jonathan.

Counselor discussed several possible alternatives for addressing Konesha’s issues and concerns, including possible approaches to a polyamorous solution involving both her husband and brother. This possibility, as well as alternatives to help Konesha manage her erotic energy, will be explored in future sessions.

Many women prefer the Doggy position in copulation because it can render extraordinarily pleasurable stimulation of the vaginal "G-spot".

Summary: MVK

Editing: AZ

[This narrative has been approved for release for educational purposes. It has been edited for readability and continuity, and to protect confidentiality. Similarities or resemblances to specific individuals may be coincidental.]