Julie: Adult daughter pursues incest with dad during getaway in a lake cabin (case narrative)

[This entry was initially posted to the original Red Keyhole blog on 12 May 2011.]

How does a young woman manage to persuade her dad to have incestuous sex with her?

In a number of postings, this blog has documented how consensual father-daughter incest can originate in many forms and through many individual experiences. This case, excerpted from a July 2009 posting by a young woman, identified as Julie, and located in New York, in response to a survey on an online incest discussion forum, recounts the daughter’s experience in seducing her dad during a recreational sojourn in a cabin at a lake.

Posted here for its research interest and educational value, this narrative illustrates some of the specific details of the daughter’s seductive “courtship” behavior, as well as revealing psychological, emotional, cognitive dynamics, and behavioral details as she pursues consensual incest with her father.

As this blog has previously noted, incest initiated and pursued by the female in such relationships is surprisingly common. This assertive determination on the part of a young female to breach the daunting Incest taboo and entice her dad into a sexual relationship once again forcefully contradicts the routine portrayal – by the media and the leading lights of capitalist morality – of such females involved in incest as invariably the exploited “victims” of the supposedly “dominating” male family member (her father, in this case).


Sexual attraction between a father and his adult daughter can overcome capitalist taboos and lead to incest, particularly if it is vigorously encouraged by the daughter.

The original narrative has been slightly edited for orthographical correction and to improve readability. It should be noted that, in recounting their experiences, narrators in such sexual forums often relish reliving many of the erotic details of their activities. Thus, original language and mannerisms have been retained as much as possible – including, as noted, very mature and sexually explicit language – in part to indicate such aspects as physical details, psychological dynamics, and emotional and moral attitudes.

I am 25 years old. My mother and father got divorced ten years ago, having just grown apart. Sadly, but without bitterness. I have remained close to both and spend time with each.

Last year my father rented a cabin up at a lake to spend a week fishing, and invited me to join him. It sounded nice, his spending the time out on the lake fishing, and me relaxing in the sun on the deck ….

The first four days it rained, making it a washout, so we spent the time cooped up in the cabin … which gave us a chance to be together, doting on each other in a typical father-daughter way.

I suppose, like most girls, I have always enjoyed harmlessly flirting with my father … but … my being older, [made] it easier for both of us to be a little more indulgent than we ever had been. Especially, I think, with the privacy of the cabin.

Mostly for entertainment, I teasingly let my father see me naked after a shower … something that he enjoyed and appreciated, not having seen me nude probably since I was about nine. So I playfully cuddled with him on the sofa, and teased him about getting turned-on, which he admitted that he was.

Feeling quite uninhibited, I told him that he should let me see. Making me promise never to tell my mother, he went ahead and got undressed, too.

I have to admit that I thought it was really romantic, my father sitting there like that, letting me see him with an erection. The moment was just so delightful in a way that I never imagined.

Although my father was reluctant to let it go farther than that, I was quite taken by the idea of our doing it together, just as a means of showing how much we loved each other. To me, it was just the most special thing in the world.

Assuring my dad that I would never tell Mom or anybody, we decided to fuck. My dad was very thoughtful and gentle while I laid and we did that together. It was the most loving thing for both of us. We both felt quite proud of ourselves for doing that together.

Over the course of that entire next week, we freely made love a number of times. In the year that has followed, my dad and I have quietly enjoyed having a sexual relationship that we both find extremely rewarding. Although I will never forget the fishing trip and that first rainy day.